From the time you were 0-6 years old 95% of your subconscious mind was formed and that is where you are spending 95% of your time operating from. If you are living unconsciously you are living a life that was given to you and not one you are choosing. It is time to heal the trauma in order to live a life that you love. I am here to help you work through your trauma to a place of healing.
Just like you once were programmed by your parents actions, beliefs and treatment your child is experiencing the same. Unless you heal your inner child and live consciously you are going to pass down a lot of the same habits and trauma. Our children are our greatest teachers. They are a mirror being held up to us at all times. They show us where we need to grow and heal. Every action and reaction can either be a conscious one of our choosing or from our subconscious mind which will continue the cycle. You are here for a reason, you know it is time to end the generational trauma.Â
A conscious life is a constant choice. We can choose to live on programming that was given to us or we can choose to take control over our life and make it what we’ve always imagined it to be. When you imagine your ideal life what does that look like? Why do you feel you can’t have it? You can have the life you’ve always imagined. It all begins with retraining your thoughts. I want everyone to have this gift of freedom that lies within each and everyone of us. I am here to help you make it possible.
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I am so glad that you are here. You know why? That means you are ready to begin your healing journey.Â
Once you declare you are ready everything else is just building blocks to figuring it out. Â I know that anyone can do it because if I made the changes I have I KNOW it is possible for anyone. I came to America as a refugee during the Kosovo- Serbian war. I am one of five siblings. My childhood caused me a lot of trauma and it caused me a lot of pain during my young adult years. I was looking for love, fulfillment and joy from everyone else and everything else.
At first I began to blame my parents and my childhood for all my struggles but I realized that they did the best they could with their level of awareness. They were merely only passing down what they were given. In fact they gave us much better than they had. We all want to be better for our children but unless we heal that trauma it will continue to happen. I took my life into my own hands and decided I would start to change my thoughts and beliefs. Not only for myself but for my parents, their parents, my children and grandchildren. Healing your trauma is the most powerful thing you can do.
From my own personal experiences in life to my education in social work, specifically focused on childhood development, I realized that so many people have similar struggles. So many people are in pain but they do not know why or how to heal it. Working with 4-5 year olds in tough situations I saw that these full of life children would one day be the adults I was surrounded by and it came full circle for me when I had my two children. I felt I needed to start at the source (the parents) and not the byproduct of trauma (the child) to really make the changes I wanted to see for our world. Â That is why I decided to create Mindful Maloku, in hopes of changing the world one parent at a time.
I now work with clients 1:1 as a coach for their inner child healing + conscious parenting needs. The reviews IÂ have on here speak for themselves but the amount of change I have seen in my clients lets me know that I am in alignment with you true calling. I feel called to do this work and if you feel in alignment with my mission feel free to reach out!
I look forward to hearing from you.
Editë Maloku
